2) The "determining" factor(s) were that in addition to us being horny as heck for one another, we had determined that each of us had pleasant personalities, and did not exhibit any particular neurotic tendencies. We didn't get any "red flags" from each other.

3) I think we wanted to get married within the first year we were together, but decided to wait 3 years until I finished college.

4) We got into some hot, heavy petting and groping on the first date, and I believe we had sex on the second date.

5) Here are what I consider to be some of the crucial aspects of a successful relationship:

- A long list of common interests; things you both enjoy doing TOGETHER as opposed to separate interests and separate groups of friends.

- A lot of tolerance for each other's differences. As much as you share in common, you're still going to rub one another wrong from time to time. Be mature and deal with it. Separate the small $h!t from the serious stuff.

- A sense of compromise; so that you can work out your problems with a minimum of emotional trauma. It's marital negotiation.

- A sense of sympathy and forgiveness. You're both going to screw up on occasion. You need to be able to forgive, forget, and move on with the relationship.

Some move on ideas;

No more over nights with him.

Keep your relationship like you don't care what he is doing, will drive him crazy.

Go out with friends, not frequently or it will look like your a bad mother.

Get involved in something you enjoy just for you! Maybe like a class of some kind, call your local county office or school they offer all kinds of stuff from scrap booking to swimming, dance,computers all kinds of stuff. Could even take a class with the baby : )

At any rate the important thing is to keep the focus on you and the baby! Even if you really do care what he is doing and with whom, never show it. Act like you just don't care. And keep him at a distance, this situation is too close to you being desperate and letting him "have his cake and eat it too" God Bless You and your baby, you both deserve better.

When he asks you out accept his invitation. Just go slowly, you know it's just a date so you should relax and be yourself. If you hit if off, then the physical stuff will come naturally.

Just make sure that when you're out on the date that you look him in the eyes and smile and stuff like that. If there's a strong attraction there, it'll be hard not to be drawn to him and him to you. So you should sit close to him as well.

Good luck, sweetie and just remember to have fun! Don't put too much pressure on yourself or him to have the perfect date. Just enjoy yourself.

Oh & I'm happy for you!

Good luck with this relationship and keep it strong, always be honest to her and don't cheat! lolz…

Hope this helps! ^__^

best of luck to you

He waited because his past relationships never lasted longer than a few months and didn't want to lose it being drunk and not remembering the girl the next day.

After we started dating he realized it was me he wanted to lose it with, and I'd say just do it. Guys mostly aren't about the "specialness" for them, they just are happy to have finally found that girl and now can get laid!

The first few times were kind of awkward because obviously a guy that has never had sex before cannot perform for hours on end. The only thing awkward about it was the amount of time he lasted the first few times, but you just need to laugh it off because every guy has been in that position in their lives. You are just the one who will be witnessing it.

Just don't make comments about the quality right at the beginning, hes a noobie and overtime he'll learn what to do and how to do it.

First time tho, go on top so he can get the rhythm of it and learn what to do, b/c nothings more awkard than a guy on top who has no idea what he's doing.

8 months is not a long time, lol, maybe at your age but it's not really. If she's done this twice to you in that length of time, she isn't going to stop. If she's cheating on you mentally don't kid yourself, it will turn into physically when she meets the right one.

Don't let her continue to hurt you. You don't sound like the sharing type, so dump her and find someone who wants to be with you, and only you. You're young, and it's not fair to you to waste your time on someone like her.

Ahhh, love those two. They’re so silly. x3

You could always get him a magazine subscription having something to do with his hobbies.

I know for a fact that we guys like any gadget regardless or how big or expensive it is, specially if it does or serves more than one purpose.

A good idea are those self adjusting wrenches, they come in handy when your hands are busy.